Have you ever heard the saying too many chefs spoil the pot? Well the same analogy can be attached to you and your personal goals. It’s impossible to be thrown off your game when the other players can’t see your cards. When no one knows what you’re working towards they cant sabotage it. If you want to see real change in your life you’re going to have to switch up your strategy. We can be our own worst enemies at the best of times and I know many people don’t like to hear that but it’s true. But in order to do so some things have to change. I’m really sorry but I’ve felt so strongly about this so I had to put it out there. We are not even properly settled into 2020 yet and here I come with this slap on your wrist type of content. I was very hesitant about putting out this post. Unfortunately I don’t have an explanation as to why that it is. Envy, jealousy, unhappiness and insecurities can make even the people who are supposed to love you work against you. In this case Id’e advise you to be cautious because at the end of the day your family and friends are human beings too. Keeping your plans away from those you love is difficult because you naturally want to tell them. I know it’s hard to keep good news to yourself but you must master the art of moving low key until things are finalized and set in stone.Įven after you’ve achieved something you still have to keep it on the low and only share with the necessary people.
#MOVE IN SILENCE HOW TO#
Premature announcements sink many ships baby! Learn how to keep your MOUTH closed or you’ll be sorry. I can guarantee that there is someone out there who will be screwing up their face as they read about your ambitious 2020 goals. Please think twice before you discuss future endeavors publicly. The internet is a very big and scary place. You just don’t know who is wishing bad on you. In this new decade start to position yourself so that you’ll always be 7 steps ahead of the opposing team. Let me drop some wisdom on you real quick, never ever let your right hand know what your left hand it doing. We now live in a society where people feel like if they cant see or hear about something then nothing is being done. I feel like most people that overshare only do it because everyone else is. Now you might not do this online but you do it on real life so cut it out. The time your online screaming about next steps in lets say a big job interview process there is someone on your timeline that doesn’t want you to get that job. This is more of a reason to keep them close to you heart until they have fully manifested. You just never know what someone is thinking or feeling about you and your goals. Some people are not as vocal and direct as that so called friend and that’s even more worrying. Your goals might be intimidating to someone for whatever reason and as a result they secretly don’t want you to win.
So be very mindful of what you’re sharing and with who. Not everyone is going to understand your goals or see your vision. I realized then that my personal goals and dreams have no business being discussed with certain individuals. The way I was dismissed and aggressively shut down by that person actually shocked me.
Last year I foolishly told someone I considered a friend about my desires to live and work abroad. Most people are not able to see it in others but I’m here to remind you that’s it’s definitely there.īelieve it or not but some people can become intimidated by other’s dreams & goals. There are a lot of people out there who are bad vibes. In simpler terms, move in silence because the less people know the better and I mean this in the nicest possible way. E.g when the deal is closed, contract is signed and the necessary things have been approved. In this new decade practice keeping things close to your chest until the time is right. For this reason you have to move a little different when it comes to the affairs of your future. We might be able to see a person’s face but unfortunately we can’t see their heart. Not everyone that you interact with online or in real life are genuinely rooting for you. Telling people more than they need to know online and in real life can do more harm than good. Every day that we wake up those forces will do everything to work against you. As much as there are forces of good in this world there is also evil. This is could be true but then again so are blocked blessings. Now you may argue and say that you didn’t get those opportunities because it wasn’t yours. Don’t even try and deny it because everyone walking on God’s green earth has experienced this. Some of those opportunities fell to the ground the moment you told someone about it.
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